Те черты, которые нам нужны

1. Be courteous to others - not just me; 2. Love to laugh with me; 3. Love to cuddle with me; 4. Tickle me - physically and emotionally; 5. Be willing to defend me; 6. Be supportive; 7. Be a dreamer; 8. Generally be more optimistic than pessimistic, but should also be realistic; 9. Develop his own opinions and therefore not always agree with me, but still respect my beliefs; 10. Possess a sarcastic, somewhat dry sense of humor; 11. Possess some childish and endearing quirk about him; 12. Have an interest in art (whether that means admiring or creating); 13. Be able to calm me down when I am nervous or comfort me when I am upset; 14. Be willing to occasionally embarrass himself for me; 15. Have some professional plans to pursue after institute; 16. Be willing to teach, but also to be taught; 17. Be willing to admit that he doesn't know everything and admit when I am right; 18. Be a good listener and be interested in what I have to say; 19. Be somewhat traditional, but should still be open to new ideas; 20. Be faithful. Distance should not interfere with his loyalty to me; 21. Be comfortable talking with me; 22. Be happy in my company; 23. Tolerate, even like, the pet name I give him; 24. Keep his promises to me and to others; 25. Not mind how I dress; 26. Be comfortable just sitting in silence with me; 27. Be altruistic and willing to help those in need; 28. Accept me for who I am---my personality, my beliefs, and my looks; 29. Read for pleasure; 30. Enjoy visiting libraries; 31. Enjoy visiting (most) museums; 32. No

t be concerned whether I wear make-up or not and like the way I look with or without it; 33. Like animals; 34. Make an effort to call me before I call him to coordinate dates; 35. Contact me just to ask how I am doing that day and to remind me that he misses and cares for me; 36. Should not immediately declare his love for me; he should wait at least a few months, not days or weeks. 37. Stay reasonably updated on the news (i.e., reads the newspaper for something besides the comics or sports statistics at least once or twice a week); 38. Eat meat; cannot be a vegetarian or have a severely restricted diet, unless he has serious allergies; 39. Like watching movies, especially with me; 40. Not be a sports-watching junkie. He should generally prefer playing sports over watching them; 41. Must like and respect nature; 42. Must not be afraid to admit that there's a problem in our relationship; 42. Not be afraid to tell me if something I do turns him on or excites him in any way; 43. Must respect my friends; 44. Must respect my choice not to drink; 45. Must respect my privacy and understand that I want to be alone sometimes; 46. Must like visiting parks; 47. Not be afraid of foreign languages and cultures; 48. Be kind and considerate; 49. Surprise me with his tender and generous side; 50. Respect my right to hold secrets that don't affect him; 51. Not keep secrets from me, unless they really don't affect me; 52. Not be ashamed of me; 53. Be concerned about my happiness; 54. Make every effort to be the best boyfriend he can be!